I realised that not much has to happen for something "rare" to occur. While many people believe that everything happens for a reason, or a rare occurance is, well exactly that, a rare occurance. I believe otherwise. I believe things happen the way they do, because they didn't happen any other way. On the same point, I believe that prharps what we see as a rare occurance, might actually not be. Who's to say that event hasn't happened plenty times before without us realising?
Can we really say that something has happened for a reason, when the events leading up to it is clear and undetstandable?
I'm a quadriplegic, and While I've been trying to find a reaon for my being in the situation I am. I've come to the conclusion that on the 1st of September 2007 when i had my accident, It was simply because I wasn't anywhere else. I've made it easy for myself to understand. No more qeustioning, no more what if, and most importantly no more wondering and thinking
Uncomplicate your life by applying this method to your everyday situations. Stop looking for reason where there isn't reason.
It happened that way because it didn't happen any other way.